Once upon a time, I had a blog called Sibboleth (may it rest in peace). I was quite proud of the cleverness of this title (ok, am proud of that moment of inspiration that brought the title to mind). But in addition to being clever, it also signaled something about my theological place and posture. I had been, for many years, incapable of saying things “just so,” and thus found myself on theological outs with my denomination, Presbytery, church, and even some friends.
So I proudly took the label of “mis-pronouncer” of theology, began my blogging career with an extended review of why N. T. Wright should be beloved by people who had walked the Reformed theological trajectory, and created a soap-box to give myself voice in the controversial issues of the day.
When my blogging life was raised from the dead this past January, I wanted to strike a different note. Rather than defining myself as reacting against what others see as the crucial shibboleths, I wanted to engage in a more constructive, and possibly even, at times, winsome project of engaging a host of issues from the perspective of what I’ve been calling narrative theology.
I often fall short of this ideal, but I pray, and have hope, that I am growing into it.
Enter Rich Mouw.
Rich is the president of Fuller Seminary (full disclosure: that makes him my boss, and the boss of my bosses), and a person whose life and speech reflect the sort of winsome engagement with those who agree and disagree alike that most of us could only aspire to attain in this life. And his
book, Uncommon Decency extends the invitation for us all to strive after a convicted civility in our conversation with one another.
Mouw recognizes that people tend to fall off the horse in one of two directions: those with deep convictions have a propensity toward belligerence or triumphalism in their articulation, propagation, and embodying of their beliefs while those who are civil tend to be people of little definite conviction, pluralists in the sense of affirming that anything goes.
In Uncommon Decency Mouw makes a case for Christians to pursue and hold to robust convictions while at the same time cultivating a civility in our conversation with other people. As he does so, he
engages thorny issues of interfaith dialogue, conversation about sexuality, how to embrace conviction and civility in the church, Hell, and even the mundane issues of parking spaces and rental car disagreements.
The book engages in both the theological, Christian underpinnings of our need to be convicted and civil and how this looks in practice.
This is a book that most of us need to read ourselves–as much as most of us know a person or two to whom we’d like to give a copy!
It was interesting to me to read this book immediately after having read through David Sehat’s The Myth of American Religious Freedom. I think that in theory Mouw and I are on much the same page in terms of being cautious about imposing Christian values on the culture from without, and the idea that it’s good for Christianity to pursue a religiously pluralistic environment so that we, too, can continue to thrive.
If there’s one thing I would have liked to see more of in the book, it would have been a more central place for the death (and resurrection) of Jesus in laying out the theology and articulating the approach to modern issues. The cross came up in one important place, to balance out the sometimes-triumphalist Abraham Kuyper, but I would have liked to see more. That’s what happens when a Paul scholar reads a work by a philosopher, I guess!
In all, this is a book well worth reading–it’s updated and expanded from an earlier version and as timely now as it was then.